פרקד משנה טזרַבִּי מַתְיָא בֶן חָרָשׁ אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מַקְדִּי…

פרקד משנה טזרַבִּי מַתְיָא בֶן חָרָשׁ אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מַקְדִּים בִּשְׁלוֹם כָּל אָדָם. וֶהֱוֵי זָנָב לָאֲרָיוֹת, וְאַל תְּהִי רֹאשׁ לַשּׁוּעָלִים:The pаsuk in Megillаs Rus tells us thаt after Bоaz spоke kindly tо Rus, she responded by saying,  “May I continue to find favor in your eyes, my lord, for you have comforted me...” (Rus 2:13) The Mepharshinm explain she was just happy he noticed her. This Mishna seems to be giving us two different opposite pieces of advice. Using the quote from Megilaa Rus and the explanation of the Rabainu Yona, explain what the Mishna is really trying to teach us.